I am not some careless mother who just keeps “popping out children” that I can’t take care of. That being said, you were busy at work and that wasn't the time or place to tell you that her dog was dying. , so I just say hello, your dog is lovely, can I say hello? Around an half of an hour later Joe arrived at the beach and directly came to me telling me that “my shitty dog had woken him up”. I posted him on every pet finder and community social media site. And they are all just fine! Your mama is seizing upon this paper thin reason to finally! get you to get rid of your pet -like she wants you to do-and whyyyyy haven’t you already-like she told you to do-and you haven’t! and she doesn’t like it. Last year, a couple that I know, but not super well, started bringing their dog to the tailgate. However, my son has somewhat of a fear of dogs - but not all dogs. We adopted… AITA for telling someone i'm not friendly when their dog came up to me? r/aita#reddit #redditpost #storytime #storytimes #redditstories #aita #amitheasshole My sister, "Emma" (28F), has a 3-year-old Golden Retriever named "Buddy" whom she absolutely adores. A dog can't make soup when you're ill like a husband can. aita for telling a dog's owners that "i'm not friendly". People are very generous with other people's time, money, and belongings. This happened about an hour ago at the time of typing. This was done in small groups to have an open discussion. Many years back I had 2 very well trained dogs, a GSD and a rottie. AITA for yelling at an unleashed dog's owner? Not the A-hole. They had likely been building up friendly feelings, letting you in emotionally, BUT NOW literally every experience you've had together has been thrown into a different perspective. Edit: I am grateful for the honesty from people respectfully telling me that what I did was wrong. With one arm I pack stuff up in our wagon and start heading home. I have had boyfriends and even a short relationship that ended NTA. Liss78 said: NTA. People made their own decisions on whether or not to go to the house after receiving your information and request for support, I’m glad to see so many were supporting neurodivergent kids. From someone who was always a big guy growing up, always using food as a coping mechanism for my problems and troubles to lose all the weight, I want someone to be on the same path as me. Constantly saying I'm being mean to the dog because I refuse to pet her every 5 seconds- which leads to her whining because he has not trained her to have boundaries at all and her anxiety is fucked because of it. 6K votes, 253 comments. but the dog is a rescue. It's the responsibility of the dog owner to control their pet and them letting it run around without a leash certainly isn't that. Your neighbor may have some sort of mental illness. Short story. And I would never put my dogs in harms way. 7K comments. I'm very curious to see how people will rule in the case Dog people train their dogs, socialize their dogs, and consider their dogs' well-being and needs. I'm in Arizona, nearly every patio where i'm at is dog friendly. Not the A-hole. Sweet little dude, good temperament, not trained at all. ADMIN MOD. I was a lot more awkward as a kid, so I often just followed his friend groups around, even though many of them bullied me. You politely declined and then when he pushed you you politely told him the truth. WaywardMarauder. I still don't understand why people don't understand that. AITA for not letting my buddy's girl bring her dog into my pool party. A dog can't love you back like a husband can. She has been my best friend since I graduated university. Subreddit Announcements You weren't even asked by anyone to give up the dog (which pisses me off as a dog owner) the least they could have done was gone straight to you not him. Emma has always been very close to Buddy, and he goes almost everywhere with her. minecraftandstorytime · Original audio He lets the dog roam around with other kids and says that it’s ok because the dog is wagging his tail. I told him I didn't appreciate a strange dog coming up to my son and I and I'm protecting my son. (Edit: live with their landlord. Imagine letting your dog attack someone & then your dog gets stabbed or kicked in the face. My husband is not a deadbeat dad. There some stuff where people “toughen up”. Tell the relatives they can board themselves at a hotel. I feel so bad. Reply reply More repliesMore replies. In a dog park full of neutered males, that could become an issue very quickly. Help keep the sub engaging! Don’t downvote assholes! Do upvote interesting posts! Click Here For Our Rules and Click Here For Our FAQ. I say Clearly you are a shit owner. We can't really work from home a lot because in person Sutarmekeg. Sorry about formatting, on mobile. We are in line at the hostess and hanging out for a minute while they get the table ready and grab a kids menu. They would take pictures of the dog on my cornhole boards, let it on my camping chairs. AITA for telling my wife and kids to either take care of their dog or rehome it. Some people look at me gone out when I ask them, as if it's a ridiculous question or I'm implying their dog might bite, but it's just polite. Me (20) and my gf (19) take our 2 huskies to a dog park nearby so they can play with the other dogs there, we know most people that go at the same time as we do, including an elderly man (around 70) who rescued a stray dog and called her Nina, because she was a stray, Nina gets really nervous around new dogs that come into the dog park, so her owner just puts her on a leash until she gets One friend found availability the week before thanksgiving for $200 a day, as compared to the usual $80. Went to a brewery restaurant with my wife. AITA for telling him to get rid of the dog after the dog ate all of my food? Not the A-hole. I say fuck off as we head to our table. Doesnt understand why I do not want to spend every second of my time with the dog (literally every second- even if I'm on my laptop AITA for not letting my friend bring his service dog over. As a dog owner and trainer, you are not the asshole. I'm also adopted and don't think that comment was out of line either. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher You gave up your dog so you could move new people in. Cold in the water but great otherwise. No matter what or where the wedding is going to be, "no pets" means "no pets. Thats not right. He is not a dog person. Personally, any time I'm near someone with a dog on the trail, I'm watching it to make sure it's under control - if it's growling at me - I'm ready to hurt it if they lose control - and them if they try to stop me. Yeah, that aspect of the comments just made me see red. 5 hours long on this post. AITA for flipping out on a dog owner for ruining lunch. true. That's a I was a little insulted that I have the same value as a dog they've had for a month and called them bad parents. I adore my dog too and she helps me immensely with my anxiety, but she is not a service animal, and so I have no right to even ask if she can come along anywhere. Both nice to me & my brother & anyone in the yard with us. They pull the dog back under the table. 30am as of writing). I love Buddy, too, but I'm not as obsessed with him as Emma is. My job does an annual benefits review where they evaluated our current benefits and took suggestions for new benefits. The reason being is that I've worked really hard to come to where I'm at now, and I don't want that potential of someone pulling me back into that life. We swam, grilled, watched the Masters (until the rain delay), drank. Parenting would be telling the child “No, that doggie isn’t a bad doggie, it’s just one we don’t know so that’s why we don’t touch the doggie without asking”, not teaching the child that all dogs are bad. Invited a bunch of friends over to my house. It all started when Jack and Jill got pregnant. You can absolutely be more rude telling people off. My (28f) brother (26m) was my best friend growing up. Three years ago my wife and kids wore me down and I agreed to let them get a dog. She looks at me like I’m crazy and is clearly annoyed at my reaction. I have a 3 month old and wife is still on Maternity leave. Telling her, though, to "shut up" is kind of rough, but I'm not going to count that against you because I can see where you're coming from. I was walking with my son (11) after school. You can decrease your dog's chance of being involved in an altercation by not taking an intact dog to a dog park. I admit I was a touch rude, I just say, "I'm not friendly". And don't let kids pet your dog while explaining why they shouldn't, make them take their hands off first. They seem baffled that someone didn't like their dog. You ignored the dog you gave up for a month. I have an uncle who was terrified of dogs too. then, their disgusting fur-goblin ASSAULTED ME by sniffing my ankle. DisrespectfulAdult. he probably has trauma related to separation from owners too. On a side note, I recommend carrying a dye colored pepper spray. Because people told me that shit for years, and so I told myself I didn’t have a problem…and it turned out I had a problem. r/AmItheAsshole. I feel like I may be TA because I am refusing to give up my dog for a half sister I never know. My parents (m/f 60) came to stay with me a week after giving birth. He didn't feel the same way. Your child and dog come first. My (M39) friend (M38) recently got a service dog, its a diabetic alert dog. Throwaway. A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Help keep the sub engaging! AITA for preventing our office from going dog friendly. Honestly he’s a little naïve if he thinks everyone loves his dog as much as he does…. It usually takes 18 months to train a service dog, and for guide dogs up to $60,000 to train. The deal was that I wouldn't have to walk it or clean up after it and that they I admit I was a touch rude, I just say, "I'm not friendly". We are both 26. D&M have a dog named S, who is rambunctious, no listening skills, “esa” and has separation anxiety. Join the community of moral philosophers and share your dilemmas. I yell at him to go away. It's your place, your furniture, you have the right to tell people, no shoes in my house or no dogs on the furniture. OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I refuse to give my dog, Because my half sister is moving in. A friend, my wife, 20 and 2 month old kids and I went out to brunch at a brewery yesterday. No idea the breed, but it did not look the least bit menacing. Contest mode is 1. AITA for getting angry for being jumped on by a dog at a brewery. he comes to mine for Christmas. He’s deaf and she has mentioned that he doesn’t pick up on the social cues of other dogs, so whenever I’m out with my dog (on-leash) we let them sniff noses but just go along on our way. " It's all for him. The next week was going be very rainy and cold so I took him home. AITA for telling someone being a mother is not a personality? Not the A-hole. There is a canal area that has half a dozen decent sized grassy areas with benches. Find out if you were wrong or right in an argument. Ideally, all the dogs at the park are fixed and there are no worries, but that's not the reality. Their lease almost ended and my parents invited them to stay at our house. At least in the US. When i (27f) was around 10 my parents divorced, it was a messy thing, no one ever told me the reason and i do not really care. Call your venue and explain the situation. I (25M) live in a place where it was warm enough out that a pool party was mildly feasible. 63K subscribers in the DenverCirclejerk community. You could get attacked then have to hurt the dog too. I tell them just because the place is dog friendly doesn't mean that its okay for your dog to come up to me. I'm in pain, I can't enjoy my own home, and they still want to keep the dog. He is simply someone who has a dog, and is obsessed with how it can benefit him by "being cute. 3K votes, 1. •. Open menu Open navigation Go to Reddit Home. Feb 15, 2024 · 3,748 likes, 1,262 comments - minecraftandstorytime on February 15, 2024: "AITA for telling someone I’m not friendly when their dog came up to me? Follow @minecraftandstorytime for more!!". Plus, not every nervous dog is wearing a vest etc. If someone came out to get the dog, they could’ve helped the woman if needed. Circle Jerk. He has neglected these things which has made this dog so awful. They came to visit me at work and brought Chick Fil A for lunch. In this episode of reddit top posts & best stories from r/AITA : 00:00 : intro00:31 : story105:06 : story211:13 : story3If Your Story appears in one of our v Me(25M), my brother Jack(27M) and his wife Jill(25F). AITA for not checking that a gym was dog friendly? I might be the asshole because I was not kind to a dog coming up to me at the gym and argued with a fellow patron over his dog. AITA for telling people my brother chose a dog over me? Not the A-hole. No collar, no microchip. He brought the dog home 4 months ago. Their owners have a full say about who can touch them. Rebecca and I have never had any issues, but I wouldn't say I know But only just. Aita for telling my dad he's not entitled to a relationship with me. There might not be an official registry, but there are countless hours on training tests- including the public access test necessary to allow them to work in public. You should always ask before petting someone's dog. There was 0 incident but I didn't know how our adopted dog would react as this has only happened 1 other time but that dog was tiny. The woman has a habit of coming up to my window with her dog and saying hi to my dog when she’s in the window. Dogs are not public property. He thinks by telling you that you can go to the shelter to pick out another dog is going to get you off his back for rehoming Dave. A dog can't read to your children like a husband can. I (32F) and boyfriend (36M) have these 2 friends T (28F) and R (32M). Really annoys me when people tell me “it’s ok, my dog is hypoallergenic, I have dog allergies too and I’m fine. I went up to bed and told them to make their choice by tomorrow, but I haven't been able to sleep for worry (its 4. I don’t like surprises. AITA for going to HR about Dog Friendly Fridays and getting it to be a one time thing and possibly end after that one time, it might make me the asshole because I seem to be the only one who objects to having Dog Friendly Fridays in the office when the rest of the staff is overwhelmingly in favor of it. Then you showed up at their house and harassed them online about THEIR dog’s name. you’re probably not the only person in your friend group that doesn’t , just the first to have All such licenses are bogus. Found a dog in a train station. Reply. The owners should've kept a tighter leash on their dog in the first place and apologized rather than said "he's friendly" because that's the most annoying phrase on earth. A wedding is one of them, unless you know the groom or bride very well, know it's going to be a casual outdoor wedding and reception, and have an exceptionally well-behaved pet. AITA for neutering someone else's dog. His mother "gifted" him the dog behind my back and I knew for an absolute fact that we were not in a spot financially to ADMIN. NTA obviously, but I'm skeptical there's pet boarding with any availability at all over Thanksgiving / Christmas by mid-November 2021. AITA for telling someone I’m not friendly when their dog came up to me? Follow @minecraftandstorytime for more!!. He called me an asshole and told me to find somewhere else to walk. The issue arises in that he wants to bring it to my house when I host hangouts/parties. I (F27) lived with my parents until last week. My (35F) husband and I have a daughter, Maddie (5). She calls me an asshole and continues her walk. My friend Ollie and his wife Rebecca have a daughter, Beth (4). In those moments, a lab type dog gets up and starts sniffing my ankles. Jul 10, 2023 · Here Are 11 AITA Submissions From This Year Where Both People Were Declared The A-Hole — Now You Have To Decide Who's The Bigger A-Hole. She's inconsiderate. Tell them you don't want the dog there, and you're sure they don't either. I'm not a dog friendly person so i asked them to stop and not bring the dog next time. I was confused, like wtf, and he told me that he and Jill will be at my room and I go to guest room. At this point I yelled at him "OH COME ON!". And then there’s stuff that no one should endure for decades. They dismissed me. ” I admit I was a touch rude, I just say, "I'm not friendly". I (f37) gave birth a couple of months ago via csection. Just goes to show that people who love dogs dont always bother learning how to communicate with them. So for OP, it's a betrayal of trust to lie by omission. Jun 10, 2024 · Not that you need them. Asshole. As I left I told him i'll kick his dog again if it comes up to us. He should've either not approached the dog, or ask politely to get the dog away from him. 2. Using abbreviations for protection. i whipped around and calmly explained to them that "they need to fuck off with AITA for telling someone i'm not friendly when their dog came up to me. NTA you didn’t tell anybody to stay away from the house, you just gave a heads up of how someone treated a neurodivergent kid. Right? I think hypoallergenic dogs just mean they shed less. We got stopped for a few moments behind a table leaving and saying goodbye. Since this morning she woke me up at 8 am licking my face bc she needed to go outside I immediately thought that she might have barked before and I didn’t hear her so I asked Joe which hour did she woke him up I admit I was a touch rude, I just say, "I'm not friendly". AITA for telling my dad "My dog, my house, my rules". They seem like very fine people but they are just not for me. You gave up any claim you had to that dog when you turned him over to his new family. Ollie and I have been friends for ten years, he's been with Rebecca for six. A ways up the street I saw a dog not on a leash. Lots of people have both babies, and dogs. Skip to main content. Idk I feel like she should understand where I'm coming from too. A dog is not the same as a husband. They start saying if you aren't friendly you shouldn't be coming to a dog friendly restaurant. I could see the owner tying up the dog and then came jogging over to us to get the other. 1. Which is a reflection of himself. AITA for telling someone i'm not friendly when their dog came up to me? #reddit#aita #reddit #redditstories #shorts Went to a brewery restaurant with my wife We adopted my dog a couple years ago and were told by the shelter that he needs a one dog household due to his issues with other dogs. suddenly, i walked right by a couple's table as i went to get a drink. But ALL dogs are teritorial. However I have also read a lot of horrible assumptions from people as well and I’d like to clear them up. He continues arguing with me and said if I wasn't holding my son he'd put hands on me. I'm not much of a dog person and really don't want it at my house. The day they came, Jack asked me why I haven't moved out of my room yet. A few weeks ago, Emma asked me if she could bring Buddy to the wedding. We are an office of about 35 people. Just for background, I have been telling him to rehome the dog for months. They definitely still trigger my asthma and eczema despite me taking every antihistamine under the roof. Obviously people, regardless of their job, should be treated with respect. "Why wouldn't you just tell me?" People do this. i (27m) went to a dog-friendly bar where i was outside on a patio. But, I just want you to consider a different perspective for a second - the staff might be 100% ok with the behaviour you saw, if they’re paid enough/feel confident that it’s better than other job options. Tell us about any non-vi Not everyone wants someone’s dog all over them or their small child. This was done behind your back without any input. 9. I’m a dog person so I slowed down and stopped as it approached and put my hand out. r/AmItheAsshole A chip A close button A chip A close button As I was running up one of the walkways someone’s large (80-100lb) black shaggy dog came running up to me. r/AmITheAsshole voting guide here only one. I'm a dog person. Ive explained 100 times that dogs also wag their tails as a warning or when they’re not comfortable so a wagging tail does not mean friendly. An outsider seeing my job would She has told me about behaviours her dogs does (such as constant barking and jumping up at people), and I have first hand experienced her running off and not coming back (outside and inside non-pet-friendly places) and she has to keep the dog in a bag so it behaves. AITA for telling someone im not friendly when their dog came up to me? #askreddit #redditstories I admit I was a touch rude, I just say, "I'm not friendly". My dog was quite reactive to my LO's cries and was given some advice from a dog trainer on how to handle it. I have a dog that I love. They let the dog all over my stuff. " Your friend is being very rude and inconsiderate. It's really hard for me right now to discern when I'm being condescending or not. My mom won custody because she was able to prove in court that my father was an unfit parent. It's not so much the dog's behavior, its that she wont correct or at the very least apologize. The dog recoiled slightly, so I turned and started walking away, the dog got right up behind me and started to follow me. . Our name was called and to get to our table indoors we had to cut through the patio. Vote and comment on others' posts. AITA for telling someone i'm not friendly when their dog came up to me? #reddit#aita #reddit #redditstories #shorts Went to a brewery restaurant with my wife I start lecturing her that she shouldn’t let the dog come up to me especially when my back is turned. I have a dog, who's not allowed on Collegefundbaby. I don't want it in my fucking space. AITA Because I made my parents homeless for getting rid of my dog. Leave them alone, he’s not your dog anymore and that’s completely on you. I am not very social, and I prefer her company to most people I know. They see a stranger & they wont like it. ) It isn't uncommon I'd say. I am not a dog person. qj il xk os pn wt xz mn dj yg